Be Around Positive People
Surround yourself with successful and positive people. It's
astonishing how the influence of other people can impact and touch on our own
personal energy. Positive individuals will energize and urge us to grow in our
belief that we can achieve what we set out to do. Head off negative individuals
who will ultimately dismantle any progress you make.
The Right People
Positive individuals seem to have a supply of energy that
never seems to let them down, and they accomplish the great goals in life that
they want and dream about. They can help you remain on track and energize you
toward your own goals. A lot of times these successful individuals share the
same goals you have and are frequently very generous about passing on their wisdom
and their strategies.
So how do you discover these positive, like-minded
individuals?
Here are a few tips to help you find them, network with
them, and glean useful info and advice:
1. Smile. Though it may sound ridiculous, smiling can
immediately draw individuals towards you – particularly other positive
individuals. Having and showing a good perspective of life’s ups and downs
makes others want to be around you. It's often hard to stay positive day in and
day out, so individuals are often seeking a way to be more optimistic. If
you’re a friendly welcoming individual, and you show that to the world with
your smile, people will see you as an optimistic go-to individual.
You’ve in all probability heard it takes fewer muscles to
smile than to frown, so not only will you be beaming positivism to the world,
you’ll as well be saving energy.
2. Convey Positively. Although we all have rocky days when
nothing appears to be going right, the last thing you want do is sound off and
whine ceaselessly. No one likes a bellyacher, right?
For instance, if somebody were to ask you, "how are you
today?" don’t crank back that "life stinks" or that you’re just
"alive" or something to that impression. Rather, take a minute – and
a breath – and then reply with optimism, even if you’re having a hard day.
After all, positive individuals don’t waste their time or energy on bellyachers
or negative individuals.
It can be truly difficult to feel positive in the face of
life’s challenges, and I’m not advising that you suppress your emotions. So
either clean out the stuff that’s difficult to deal with using a tool like EFT,
or choose to center on what is working.
Even if you’re not feeling all that positive, by staying
optimistic in your outlook you’ll still draw in positive individuals to you.
3. Think Positively. Thinking positively – even through
letdowns – will help you to see the good in every state of affairs and attract
the positive individuals who share this vision.
Even if you don’t truly subscribe to these positive thoughts
at the start, or you discover positive thinking hard, catching yourself in
negative self-talk and asking ―what do I want alternatively‖, will help you
think positively and produce new patterns of positive thoughts in your brain.
Over time positive thinking will get easier and more innate.
We’ve all got energy inside us and we have the option to use
it constructively or destructively. Pay attention to the positive individuals
in your life and you’ll notice they try to be cheerful and optimistic, even
during hard times.
4. Behave Positively. It isn’t adequate to smile,
communicate, and think positively when going after your goal. You must as well
take action!
For instance, maybe you thought you could get a promotion in
the past, but then sat idly by while somebody else snapped it up. This time
your new positive thinking will have metamorphosed you into a positive
individual who takes positive action!
Showing your boss and colleagues that you're proactive and
positive will set you up for more successes.
5. Extend. Lastly, reach out to individuals at your work, in
your circle of friends, or even to individuals on the street who seem to live
positively. Ask them what it is that helps them remain positive and achieve
their objectives.
Looking for positive individuals will give you useful
information to help you reach your goals and help you become successful; it
will help you establish a network of positive friends and role models.
Being positive and exemplifying positivism draws in other
people. After all, like attracts like.
Individuals enjoy being around other people with like
attitudes and, by sustaining a positive outlook, you’ll surely lead yourself to
those successful individuals you seek.
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